Frequently Asked Questions

  • When it comes to the people I desire to serve me, I value individuals who are not only knowledgeable and skilled in their field, but also possess a strong work ethic and a genuine passion to being submissive for me . I believe that a desire to serve should stem from a place of respect and a genuine desire to contribute to my goals and well-being. Additionally, I appreciate individuals who are proactive, adaptable, and possess excellent communication skills to ensure smooth collaboration.

    I welcome all walks of life to get lost in the journey of serving me, as I believe diversity brings new perspectives and enriches the overall experience. Whether you come from a different background or have unique talents, I am open to embracing your individuality

  • I understand that starting out in BDSM can feel overwhelming, but the first step is to educate yourself about the principles, practices, and safety measures involved. It's crucial to research reputable sources, read books or articles on the subject, and consider attending workshops or joining online communities where you can learn from experienced practitioners. Taking your time to explore your own desires, boundaries, and communication skills is essential before engaging in any BDSM activities. Remember that consent, trust, and open communication are paramount in this lifestyle.

  • Before seeing me, it's important to do some self-reflection and understand your own desires, boundaries, and limits within the BDSM realm. Additionally, it would be beneficial to practice mediating and finding ways to ground yourself before our session. This can help you feel more present and in tune with your body and emotions during our time together.

    A suggestion is counting your breath: inhale 1, exhale 2, and continue this pattern up to 10, then start again from 1. This simple breathing exercise can help calm your mind and bring focus to the present moment.

  • During your first session, you can expect a safe and non-judgmental space where we will discuss your boundaries, desires, and any concerns you may have. We will also establish a clear communication system to ensure that both parties are comfortable and consensual throughout the session.

  • Before we meet, I require that all new friends submit to my brief screening process. This is a standard industry practice and helps to ensure my comfort & safety. My screening methods are discreet, privacy-focused, and non-negotiable, so I appreciate your cooperation. Please provide the following to complete the screening:

    I require a photo of your ID in addition to the screening methods listed. Please provide: A clear photo of your non-expired, government-issued Passport, Driver’s License, or ID card. (You may omit your DL/ID/Passport number & address for privacy.)

    References from 2-3 professional Dominatrixes or independent providers who you’ve seen within the past year. 

  • My limits and boundaries are non-negotiable in order to maintain a safe and respectful environment.

    I do not engage in sexual acts such as intercourse, blowjobs, oral sex, or anything that ends in a job.

    Switching as a submissive, raceplay in terms of enacting historical events Wrestling, anyone under the age of 21, castration, smoking, and dismemberment are also prohibited

  • I require a 20% deposit for hourly bookings , a 50% deposit for overnight and full deposit for virtual session. Please note that your scheduled session is not confirmed until your deposit is received. I accept deposits electronically : ( ApplePay, CashApp, Venmo, and Zelle- 'coming soon!' )

    In addition to the hourly and overnight sessions, I also provide a 15-minute consultation prior to the meeting, which is available once the deposit has been made.

  • Unfortunately, we live in a world where BDSM and sex work are highly stigmatized, so I can appreciate your reluctance to disclose your personal information online. Maintaining the confidentiality of your information is of the utmost importance to me, and I employ the following security measures to ensure your continued privacy:

    After screening, all of your personal information is deleted securely.

    I will never share your information.

    All online communications are encrypted via a VPN.

    From my encrypted account, I send emails. If you use ProtonMail, all of our communications are fully encrypted.

    Signal WhatsApp and  Telegram support encrypted calls and texts.

    There is no communication outside of scheduled or agreed-upon times. (i.e., no unexpected phone calls, texts, or emails, and discretion is available when required)

    The submission of reservation forms is secured with SSL encryption.

  • Your deposit is used to secure our hotel or dungeon space - therefore, if you must reschedule your session, I require at least 72 hours’ notice to apply your non-refundable deposit to a new booking within 30 days of the original date. If you cancel within 48 hours, you forfeit your deposit. If you cancel within 24 hours, I require a cancellation fee equal to 50% of the total booking amount. For same-day cancellations, my fee is 100% of the booking amount. In the unlikely event that I must cancel, I will refund your deposit within 3 days

  • My preferred availability is Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays between 5 pm to 10 pm and Saturdays between 12 pm to 10 pm

  • I appreciate your kind gesture! As for the gift, I am grateful for anything thoughtful and meaningful. It could be something related to my hobbies or interests, or even a gift card to a favorite store or restaurant. WishList

  • Being my personal submissive is a serious commitment and a dynamic that requires hard work and lots of training. Before I consider the decision, I would need to have a thorough conversation with you about your expectations, boundaries, and desires. It is important to establish clear communication and trust in order to ensure a healthy and consensual power exchange relationship.

  • Yes, I do sell my personal items to my loyal and deserving submissives. These items can range from my sweaty socks to sweet scented panties to my warm bed sheets. I take great pride in providing my submissives with unique and intimate mementos that hold a special connection to our dynamic. May range from $100 to $300

  • Yes, I travel to see my submissives and share new experiences with them. Mostly to Washington, D.C., Connecticut, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and Boston. I would prefer to fly or take the train to you; travel expenses will be discussed.

  • Yes, I offer distance training for submissives who are unable to meet in person. Through virtual platforms: Texts, calls, and video sessions: Listed on the Tribute.